Why are We unhappy with other People ?....

Whenever we have an unhappy experience with another person, we must not complain, "Why did he do this to me "? That is the first reaction almost everyone makes..However, it misses the mark entirely.. Instead, you must ask, "Why did I react painfully to what he did ?".... This reaction brings us back to our responsibility for abandoning ego-centered sensitivities... Then, anyone can do anything to you and there is no pain,, only a peaceful understanding......