' I may follow him '...

Never do I argue with a man with a desire to hear him say what is wrong,, or to expose him and win victory over him.. Whenever I face an opponent in debate I silently pray - O Lord, help him so that truth may flow from his heart and on his tongue,, and so that if truth is on my side,, he may follow me; and if truth be on his side,, I may follow him. ............................ Al-Shafi‘i